When is the best time to call you?
Between 10 AM & 4 PM. Even better is an email letting me know when i can expect your call so I'll be sure not to miss it
Will you call me back?
I will only call in the instance that you explicitly ask me to in your voicemail or on your questionnaire.
What if I don’t have an email address or can’t submit your questionnaire because I’m on a computer that I probably
shouldn’t be using to peruse this type of material in the first place?
Regretfully, I must insist upon a completed questionnaire before I will even consider a session and I cannot take down your information
over the phone. However, for a few dollars an hour, anyone can rent a computer from Kinko’s.
Once you’ve submitted your questionnaire, please wait at least 48 hours before calling.
Do you see novices?
Yes, I do. In fact, you could say that I “specialize” in novices as I happen to possess a very relaxed and reassuring manner which can
put the most anxious & nervous submissive at ease. However, if you’ve never had a session before, it’s a good idea to do your homework first—the
internet is a wonderful resource and there are many wonderful books on the subject.
Additionally, I also offer “consultation sessions.” A consultation session consists of a tour of the facilities, explanation and/or
demonstration of various equipment, and ample time for questions & answers. Furthermore, I'll analyze your interests, desires, and
limits and together we'll create an “outline" that can be used as the basis of a future session.
How can I refrain from annoying you?
Now that’s an excellent question! Do not call me asking basic questions already answered by this site like, “How tall are you?”
“What kinds of things do you like to do?” or “Do you have a bondage table?” If you call me up and ask me a stupid question apropos of the
aforementioned, I will assume that either you can’t read, are too lazy to read, or that you’re simply calling with the sole intention of
wasting my time while you beat off in your basement. In any case, I will end the conversation immediately and block your number.
*Do not text/send me pictures of your dick or butthole.
*Do not call me at 2 AM and leave drunken voicemails on my phone.
*Also, please be aware that toilet paper oftentimes leaves remnants and that there are babywipes located in the Men’s Room for your convenience.
Nothing makes me not want to spank you more than encountering an ass-full of fluffy bits.
*New subs who repeatedly cancel (i.e. more than once), fail to confirm, or fail to show up for their appointment will never, ever,
ever, ever, be scheduled again and will be haunted by the thought of what they missed for the rest of their utterly boring lives.
So be sure you can make it.
*Please do not ask Me to describe what will happen during O/our time together. I am not psychic; I have no idea what's going to happen and even if I did
know I wouldn't tell you because that would ruin the surprise and surprises are fun!
*Please do not ask Me to define unfamiliar terms;
you should know what the acronym "CBT" stands for before trying to buy some.
Are any activities taboo? What are the rules?
See the About Me page for a list of my limits and interests.
I'm a photographer interested in a modeling shoot. Do you work in this capacity?
All apologies but, no, I do not.
Can you tell me what is going to happen during the session?
Unfortunately, I can’t. Like each individual playmate, every session is unique unto itself. At the very least, the components
of an average session include the preferences, limits, etc., of my submissive, my own whims and mood at that particular moment,
and the reaction of my sub in response to my each and every action.
I’ve seen the various fetish clips you offer on clips4sale.com and your membership site;
is that what the average session with you is like?
No, not at all. The subs featured in my clips are people I’ve been playing with for a substantial period of time who were chosen for filming specifically
because of their natural tolerance for, and interest in, intense play. Furthermore, oftentimes there’s significant prep work or warm-up that goes into
creating a scene which never makes it into the clip because I don’t consider it quite exciting enough for an audience.
How much time should I schedule?
The amount of time you schedule is entirely up to you. If this is your first session (with me or anyone), an hour should be sufficient.
However, I routinely do longer sessions for first time subs, especially those traveling considerable distances or those whose interests involve
extra prep time (i.e. cross-dressing). After we’ve sessioned, you’ll be better equipped to decide how much time is necessary for your particular
scene.
Do you remove your clothing during sessions?
Depending on what I’m wearing and the type of scene I’m engaged in, I may “adjust” or remove my top for a brief period of time during the session
(usually to tease or taunt you). Or I may not remove my top at all. If you ask me to remove my top, however, I will purposely never ever take it offjust to
make you suffer because I’m mean that way.
While I do remove my panties for the purposes of creating a panty-gag or panty-cocktail, you will not witness the removal and they will be promptly
replaced with a fresh pair. Don’t expect a show.
I do not session in the nude nor will I wear “just heels and a thong,” and I don’t care if there are topless pictures in my gallery;
that’s not an advertisement - that’s just so you’ll know what you’re missing.
Do you take clothing/hair/make-up requests?
Yes, I do. I have a very large wardrobe and would be happy to accommodate you if possible.
What’s your dungeon like?
My studio is located in a commercial storefront and includes/features:
*small waiting area
*ample play area filled with BDSM equipment/furniture of all types
and sizes and a conversation/sitting area
*cross-dressing supplies including: wigs, shoes, cosmetics,
& a variety of sissy/slut/maid apparel.
*bathroom with shower
*a storage room/kitchenette
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I’m nervous. Is it all right if I have a few cocktails before the session to loosen up?
Well, that depends on your definition of “a few.” I understand that sessioning for the first time with a new Mistress can be a
nerve-wracking experience—often resulting in the perceived need for a little liquid courage. Nevertheless, alcohol has a number of
nasty side effects not conducive with BDSM play. That said, be a responsible adult and use your best judgment. If the activities you are
interested in could be considered “edgy” then I recommend forgoing alcohol prior to arrival. I will not throw you out for having a beer before
you arrive so long as your faculties remain unimpaired. However, if I conclude that you are too wasted to play, then play W/we shall not.
Don’t be sad though. Because I personally believe no one is ever too drunk to learn how to clean a bathroom properly,
it won’t be a complete waste of time.
How do I get directions?
After we’ve negotiated and scheduled the session, I will give you URL for a hidden link that contains my “directions page.”
This page includes: the address, written directions, maps, a direction finder, and arrival protocol. Be sure to read over the entire page!
Do I need to confirm my appointment?
Yes, you will need to confirm your appointment by calling me at least 2 hours prior to session time. If there is no answer,
please leave a brief confirmation message (i.e. Hey, Miranda! This is Rick Santorum calling to confirm O/our 2 o'clock. See you then!).
Why do I need to confirm?
Sadly, the world includes a large contingency of gentlemen who apparently receive some type of gratification from scheduling sessions that they have
absolutely no intention of actually showing up for. Thus, you are being punished for the past sins of others and if I do not hear from you by the
appointed confirmation time, I will have no choice but to cancel the session. So be sure you have your cell phone with you before you leave the house!
If I don’t hear from you, I won’t bother showing up at my studio. Once I’ve played with a sub a number of times and am convinced of his sincerity,
I often drop this pretense.
When are you available? Is there a certain time that you prefer to session?
I am generally available between the hours of 10 AM and 8 PM. I am a morning person so the earlier your session, the more hyper I’m going to be.
Is there anything I should do in preparation for the session?
At the risk of stating the blatantly obvious, please employ good grooming prior to your session. Shower, wash your hair, shave, brush & floss, clip your
nails, apply a pleasing scent or aftershave (less is better!), and wear neat, clean clothing. Those with long hair should tie it back in a ponytail. Don’t be
afraid to trim your nether-regions. Long short hairs tend to get caught in bondage equipment. And that’s a bad kind of pain!
I'm worried about marks and/or bruising. Can you administer pain without leaving evidence?
Yes. In fact, I only leave marks if specifically asked. Also, electrical play happens to be great for that sort of thing.
Do you ever travel? I'd like to have a session but live far away.
No, I never ever travel.
Also, be sure to check out my Clip Boutique & my Member’s Area; the next best thing to real time!
I have a very specific role play in mind. Is this possible? Do you work from a script?
While I do not enjoy working from actual scripts (all interaction in a scripted session is written out in advance and followed precisely), the more I know
about the type of scene you envision, the better O/our time together will be. Thus, I welcome and appreciate general outlines for role-play sessions.
Information suitable for inclusion in such an outline includes: the characters, the setting, the motivation for conflict, costumes, activities, the kinds of
things the characters say, preferred safe word, etc.
I only like foot worship. Is it possible to get a session consisting of only one activity?
Absolutely.
Will I be able to shower after the session if necessary?
Yes. My bathroom has a shower and is stocked with clean towels, wash clothes, soap, shampoo, etc.
Do you see couples or females? Will you teach my wife or girlfriend how to dominate me?
All apologies but no, I do not play with couples or females and I have neither the time nor the inclination to train anyone.
Do you offer double Mistress sessions? Are there any Ladies that work out of your studio?
Yes. Check out The Confessional Website for pictures and profiles of the Ladies available.
I’m interested in cross-dressing; can I show up for the session dressed “en femme” or made-up?
Absolutely not. My space resides in a large building and I have neighbors whom I strive not to shock, offend, or upset in any way.
If you need extra time before the session to get ready, just let me know and we can work something out.
Likewise, you may not leave my studio “en femme.” Unless, of course, it happens to be Halloween.
Do you offer ½ hour sessions?
Yes, but only for the following activities: foot worship, OTK spanking, & vacuum bed bondage.
Are there any activities that you excel in or enjoy more than others?
While I enjoy every activity on my list of “interests,” I’m always up for OTK spanking, slut training, NT, & CBT. Yes, in that order.
I’m interested in an activity not mentioned on your site.
Just ask!
What do you enjoy during session, Mistress?
I enjoy eager & responsive submissives who aren’t afraid to share what’s on their minds and who actively participate in the session
(while maintaining due respectfulness, of course).
What does “actively participate” mean? It means maybe not lie there like a corpse for the whole hour, maybe give me a sigh or a smile or a
wince every now and again; maybe give Mistress a little feedback so she doesn’t feel like she’s torturing a scarecrow …
Nothing major, just a little something-something.
Do you ever sell your used panties, stockings, shoes, etc?
Yes, I do. Interested parties should send an email detailing their requests.
Do you offer public play/outings?
Yes, but very rarely and only under very specific circumstances. Do even bother asking me about it until we’ve played at least a few times.
How long have you been a domme?
I have been a dominatrix since 2000.
Can you film or take pictures of the session for me to keep?
Yes, if you so desire. There is a fee for this service and I will need to know in advance as “shooting” requires a change of lighting, special equipment,
etc.
I’d love to be in one of your films. Can I?
Maybe. If you’re in relatively good physical condition (under 220 lbs), are enthusiastic about “playing hard,”and have sessioned with me on at least one
previous occasion, feel free to ask.
In order to be in one of my films, you will need to provide a copy of a valid photo ID (which I keep) and sign an adult model release form.
Absolutely No Exceptions!
Will there be anyone else present during the session?
Yes. For safety reasons (yours as well as mine), I never session alone. However, my “spotter” (aka "charming mother")
will be an adjacent area outside of the dungeon proper and will not be a part of the session in any way.
She will let you in the studio and escort you out and that is the extent of her participation.
What is the minimum notice you require?
During warm weather, I require at least 3 hours notice although more is preferred.
During the winter months, further notice is required as my studio takes a few hours to warm up.
To assure that I am available at your desired time & date, please give a minimum of 24 hours notice.
How do I arrange a session?
The first step in arranging a session is to complete and submit my
“Slave Application."
Upon receiving and reviewing your information, I will respond via email (or by phone,
if you prefer).
If I think we are possibly compatible, you may then call me (upon my instruction) and
we’ll have a brief discussion regarding the session.
This “phone interview” usually takes a minimum of 10 minutes.
Please be ready to ask any questions or voice any concerns you might have at this
time.
Here’s a tip: compiling a written outline prior to calling can be helpful—just in case you
become overwhelmed by the sound of my voice and completely forget everything you
meant to say. It happens frequently.
Also, be prepared to answer questions regarding your past BDSM experiences
(professional & personal), your expectations of the session, your limits, etc.
If I don’t believe we are compatible, I will not hesitate to inform you of such; however, I
might be able to recommend a Mistress in the area who would better suit your needs.
If I do decline sessioning with you, please don’t call/email periodically to see if I’ve
changed my mind. I do not play “hard to get” and the offer of cash and prizes will not
influence my decision. Really, it’s better this way. Fly away, little bird … your destiny
is elsewhere.
After the initial session, you may schedule via email but will still need to confirm by
phone.
The first step in arranging a session is to complete and submit my
“Slave Application."
Upon receiving and reviewing your information, I will respond via email (or by phone,
if you prefer).
If I think we are possibly compatible, you may then call me (upon my instruction) and
we’ll have a brief discussion regarding the session.
This “phone interview” usually takes a minimum of 10 minutes.
Please be ready to ask any questions or voice any concerns you might have at this
time.
Here’s a tip: compiling a written outline prior to calling can be helpful—just in case you
become overwhelmed by the sound of my voice and completely forget everything you
meant to say. It happens frequently.
Also, be prepared to answer questions regarding your past BDSM experiences
(professional & personal), your expectations of the session, your limits, etc.
If I don’t believe we are compatible, I will not hesitate to inform you of such; however, I
might be able to recommend a Mistress in the area who would better suit your needs.
If I do decline sessioning with you, please don’t call/email periodically to see if I’ve
changed my mind. I do not play “hard to get” and the offer of cash and prizes will not
influence my decision. Really, it’s better this way. Fly away, little bird … your destiny
is elsewhere.
After the initial session, you may schedule via email but will still need to confirm by
phone.
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